My Father –Not Just My Parent, Friend, and Guru, But a Constant Source of Inspiration

(3 October Birthday Special)

Values, discipline, and love form the foundation of a child’s personality, and it is the parents who build this foundation. A parent’s affection, protection, and guidance are among life’s greatest blessings. While a mother embodies love and emotions, a father represents discipline, experience, and courage. Fathers are not just protectors but also our first teachers, first friends, and first role models. Their presence makes the path of life simpler and more meaningful. Fathers are also a constant source of inspiration. My father, Tahir Ali, has been my first friend, first teacher, and continuous source of inspiration.

A Master of Public Relations and Human Connections

Today, 3 October, my father Tahir Ali celebrates his 71st birthday. He is a master of public relations and human connections, and his warmth and approachable nature make everyone feel at ease. In our family and community, he is affectionately called “Tahir Bhai” and respectfully referred to as “Tahir ji”. This reflects both his broad personality and the respect he commands. His sensitivity, understanding, and cooperative nature have made him popular across all ages and social classes. His life experiences, guidance, and positive outlook continue to inspire us. We pray for his health and long life.

“New Zeal, New Attire on Every Birthday”

My father’s zest for life is still as vibrant as ever. Even at this stage of life, his enthusiasm, energy, and love for living are truly remarkable. He celebrates every occasion, big or small, wholeheartedly and spreads the same positivity to everyone around him. Even today, on his birthday, he wears a new outfit — as if each year that day brings with it fresh zeal and renewed excitement. This is not just a habit of changing clothes, but a reflection of his outlook on living life in a new way. His confidence, simplicity, and warmth make him truly special. His smile still fills our home with happiness and teaches us that no matter what age one reaches, the heart should always remain young. It is these very habits of my father that inspire us to celebrate every day of life as a festival.

Learning to Rise After Falling Comes from Our Fathers

A father is the strength that not only prevents a child from falling but also teaches them how to rise after a fall. My father’s personality is truly multifaceted. His helpful nature and cheerful disposition win hearts everywhere, while his unwavering commitment to discipline gives him a distinct identity. This balance has earned him a special place both in our family and in society. He believes that cooperation and open communication strengthen relationships and communities, which is why people value his advice and guidance in all matters. Perhaps his greatest quality is the ability to bring a smile to anyone’s face. Whether in tough times or moments of joy, Tahir Ali is always ready to help. These traits have not only earned him admiration in our family but also respect in society.

Discipline, Simplicity, and Service Define His Life

Tahir Ali’s life is a blend of discipline, simplicity, and service. His helpful and cheerful nature endears him to everyone, while his adherence to principles and rules sets him apart. He firmly believes that without discipline, neither a family nor society can thrive. For this reason, we see him as both a guide and a pillar of strength. Even today, society and politics benefit from his experience and dedication. He currently serves as Media Advisor to Madhya Pradesh Deputy Chief Minister Rajendra Shukla, a testament to his deep expertise in public relations.

His birthday is not just a celebration for us but also an opportunity for inspiration. We pray to God for his health, longevity, and the continued ability to guide our family and society with love, discipline, and wisdom.

Courage and Values Inherited from His Presence

When life is filled with challenges, a father’s courage and support strengthen us. His values teach us that neither defeat nor victory is permanent; protecting principles and self-respect is true triumph. Staying honest and moving forward—this is the greatest lesson I have learned from my father. He is not just the support of our family but a lifelong source of inspiration. He has always shown that patience and hard work can solve any problem. Through his dedication, honesty, and moral values, he has taught that there is no shortcut to success.
From childhood, he taught me discipline, the value of time, and empathy toward others. Observing his struggles and achievements has given me the confidence to overcome difficulties with patience and determination. Whether in studies or life decisions, he has always guided and supported me. His simple lifestyle and positive outlook inspire me every day. Truly, my father is my role model, mentor, and source of inspiration. His life demonstrates that real success comes not from wealth or position, but from simplicity, honesty, and strong values.

A Guiding Lighthouse for the Family
A father’s presence brings a sense of security at home, and his words become guiding principles for children. My father has laid the foundation of my life on discipline and hard work, teaching me that dreaming is important, but striving to achieve those dreams is equally vital.
On his birthday, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude. His guidance has given me confidence and taught me to face life’s challenges. I pray to God for his long life, good health, and a life filled with happiness.
Papa, you are the guiding lighthouse of my life. My world is incomplete without you. Your values are my greatest wealth, and your teachings my greatest strength. You are not just my father but the true hero of my life.
Happy Birthday, Papa! May you always remain healthy, live long, and stay happy. Your blessings and inspiration make my life complete and meaningful.

— Syed Asim Ali
(Author, Journalist, and son of Tahir Ali)